Don't complain. You got what you deserve. Does a person get what he deserves in life or not? Law of Justice

Greetings to the readers of the site “Myself a Psychologist”! Question from Alla: Does a person get what he deserves in life or not?

Absolutely right, Alla, in the end, according to fate, a person always receives only what he deserves.

But sometimes there are nuances. These are not exceptions, there are no exceptions in the Law of Justice! But there are many forms, additional factors, how this Law is implemented, which is why it may not be obvious to many people. Let's look at a few examples.

  • But first, I suggest you carefully read the main article on this topic -

The Law of Justice, how it works

1. Sometimes a person deserves much more good things than he actually receives in life. It’s just that he himself doesn’t accept this good, pushes the Good away, doesn’t let it into his destiny. He is hampered by Self-restraints, such as: “I’m not worthy,” “I need to be more modest,” “I can get by,” etc. When a person is very worthy in many ways, but he himself does not consider himself such. But, again, these are his internal programs, what he believes in, so in the end everything is fair - he gets exactly what he really believes in. And as soon as he gives himself the right to something more, to accept Goodness, Success, Prosperity, his life will change for the better.

2. There is also a situation when a person seems to be good, but troubles, blows of fate and bad luck just rain down on him from above. This is also true, but not obvious to most. The reasons may be different:

A) The accumulated negative karma of the past accumulated and began to overflow onto its owner’s head. In this case, you need to start clearing things up, apologizing, closing debts, and generally working on yourself. If a person is able to understand the essence of what is happening, he can clear away the rubble himself, but if it is difficult on his own, there is not enough knowledge, then it is better to do it with or with.

IN) And it happens that a person has stayed too long in the sandbox, has grown like a fifth point to one familiar place, and does not want to go up, to higher goals, peaks. Then the Higher Powers begin to stimulate him with troubles, with cataclysms, to drive him out of the warm hole, so that he can move, think about the future, about the Soul and its Tasks. This is also true - a person must realize his potential in life, the purpose of his Soul, and not vegetate, wasting his life and allotted time.

WITH) Another option is when a person is good, but toothless, weak, does not want to fight, is not ready to fight for his happiness. One of the principles of the Law of Justice “A person sooner or later loses what he either does not value or is unable to protect”. In another way, this principle sounds like this “Only he who fights wins”, and whoever gives up at the first test and abandons the goal loses, loses and is left with nothing. Fair too! In this case, the Higher Powers create excitement in a person’s life, throw various kinds of tests in order to awaken in him strength, the fighting Spirit, the desire to fight and win, to protect what is given by God, and not to be a passive amorphous weakling who only loses everything.

3. When a person is negative, as they say, “a bad person.” It happens that punishments are suspended for certain reasons. When does this happen?

  • when certain non-light Forces vouched for him - they took him on bail, covered him for some time, delaying the reckoning, pushing back the time of execution, so to speak)),
  • or there is no one who could put the scoundrel in his place, restore justice, punish. Then the Higher Powers allow his negative activities. Why? Because people themselves must fight against Evil, and not just rely on Heaven. And in this case, the villain acts outrageously until those around him get tired of his outrageousness, and until that hero appears who will take responsibility and reward the villain what he deserves,
  • there are other reasons.

But in the end, everyone will still get exactly what they deserve. On Earth, during life or in, after death, this is the second question.

The essence of how the Law of Justice works is this: 80 percent of a person’s life, everything that happens to him is determined by his programs, and not by what is in his head or what he thinks about himself. And most of the problems that happen to a person, which, as he believes, have fallen on him unfairly, are attracted precisely by his subconscious (old beliefs, negative programs, past).

Therefore, the key to changing yourself and your destiny is not to know a lot and reason correctly, but to learn to practically change the programs of your subconscious, go to the internal root causes of troubles, and change the negative beliefs of your subconscious to positive ones!

Why are not all people able to understand and accept this? Because most people are closed to their subconscious, closed to themselves! They don't want to know the truth about themselves, especially if it's very different from their inflated ego. They lack two important qualities of a Spiritual Disciple - this is in front of themselves and. The overwhelming majority of people are afraid to find out something bad, negative about themselves, especially to admit that they are wrong, and even if they need to make some kind of apology to someone.

And the one who is sincere with himself and fearless before the Truth learns to correct the mistakes of his subconscious, achieves all the best in life and becomes the favorite of the gods!)))

And if you have a desire to learn how to work with your subconscious, with your beliefs, you can get the help of a Mentor or Spiritual Healer.

The war started by Japan was completely different from the one that happened in the reality of those who arrived.

By attacking Port Arthur from the sea, the Japanese started a war against Germany, and by landing troops in Korea, they started a war against Russia. Their goal was to regain control of Manchuria and Korea, which were heavily influenced and partially occupied by Russia.

Nicholas II foresaw a conflict with Japan and prepared for it both diplomatically and militarily (a lot was done: an agreement with Austria and improved relations with Germany ensured the Russian rear; the construction of the Trans-Siberian railway and the strengthening of the fleet provided the material possibility of fighting), however In Russian government circles there was also a strong hope that fear of Russian power would keep Japan from a direct attack. This did not happen.

Germany reacted unequivocally to Japan’s attack on its colonies in China: it sent two squadrons of warships to the Far East and began preparing the transfer of additional troops to Port Arthur and Qingdao. There was only one way there: along the Trans-Siberian railway. But the road was already used to its full capacity, transporting troops and weapons from the center of Russia to the east.

Russia did not have free railway cars, steam locomotives, or crews of drivers to transport German goods. Germany's proposal to use their rolling stock did not take into account the different railway gauges in Russia and Europe. Germany began to urgently remake its steam locomotives and carriages, adapting them to Russian railways. But this took time, and the war was going on now. Germany sent part of its troops by sea on transport ships under the protection of its ships. But this is a very difficult, expensive and lengthy journey around Africa.

So far there has been no direct clash between Japanese troops and warships and Russian ones since the beginning of the war: Vladivostok is a freezing port, and the Japanese were physically unable to approach and shoot the Russian fleet there for the winter. The Japanese troops landed in Korea could not begin military operations against Port Arthur due to their small numbers. Moreover, it no longer belonged to Russia. The Kwantung Army preparing for landing, having appeared in Manchuria, would certainly have come into contact with Russian troops and could have laid siege to Port Arthur. But the landing of this army was planned by Japan only in the spring.

Thus, a difficult situation arose in China: Japan conducted military operations against Port Arthur only from the sea with its navy. There were no Japanese ground troops there yet, there were few German troops there, clearly not enough to resist the Japanese army in the event of its landing on the Kwantung Peninsula, and Russian troops, being on their territory, had not yet been attacked by Japan, since it was winter . At the same time, Germany could not ensure the timely delivery of its troops to the area of ​​military operations due to the lack of transport resources.

Based on a secret agreement with Russia on mutual assistance, Germany asked it to attract Russian troops for the defense of Port Arthur together with the German units located in our country until the delivery of its troops in the required quantity to the theater of operations.

Russia did not object to this. Russia could not help Germany with its navy, since it was locked in Vladivostok by ice.

As always happens when one fortress is defended by its owners and the allied troops they attracted, even before the entry of these troops, disagreements began about who obeys whom, who is defending what, etc.

Despite this, part of the Russian ground forces was transferred by rail from Vladivostok to Port Arthur. Now it has accumulated enough troops for defense.

Already in May, the Japanese army landed on the Kwantung Peninsula, besieged Port Arthur and advanced to Manchuria, where it came into contact with Russian troops. The fighting began. The railway to Port Arthur was cut.

At the end of spring, transport ships carrying German troops approached Port Arthur, guarded by a squadron of their ships. Russian warships from Vladivostok also arrived there. Together, they ensured the disembarkation of German troops from transports without losses. Japanese attempts to prevent the landing of troops failed.

A protracted war at sea began: the Japanese guarded their transport ships delivering ammunition and equipment to the Kwantung Army, and the Allied naval forces tried to prevent this. The lack of unified leadership also had a negative impact here: the admirals of each fleet “pulled the blanket over themselves.”

In mid-1904, a Russian squadron of ships from the Baltic Sea and another German squadron approached Port Arthur. The advantage of the combined Russian-German forces at sea became overwhelming. In the summer, three general naval battles took place, as a result of which the Japanese naval forces were defeated.

Without naval support, supplies to the Kwantung Army practically ceased. The army was left without ammunition and equipment.

By the end of the summer, a large contingent of German and Russian troops were transported via the Trans-Siberian railway to the theater of military operations in the area of ​​Port Arthur and Manchuria, who immediately took part in the hostilities. Although there was no advantage in the number of combined forces over the Japanese, the availability of ammunition, more advanced weapons and good supplies made it possible to defeat the Kwantung Army by October.

The United Navy organized a complete blockade of Japan from the sea, stopping all civilian ships transporting military and dual-use products there.

In December, Japan entered into negotiations with Russia and Germany on concluding a peace treaty. Peace negotiations continued for two months, and a peace treaty was concluded in February.

Japan's losses in the form of indemnity, territory, rights and additional obligations exceeded 100 billion Russian gold rubles. She was also unable to repay loans to Western banks amounting to about fifty billion rubles. As a result, the yen exchange rate collapsed tenfold against the gold ruble. A wave of bankruptcies of banks lending to Japan swept across the West.

In strict accordance with the concluded loan agreements, in March 1905 the corporation fully paid for the loans received, transferring interest and returning loans in yen for a total amount of about 250 million gold rubles. Let us recall that the amount of loans was 1.5 billion gold rubles. Thus, the profitability of this financial operation was 600 percent!

Creditor banks did not even sue, trying to sue the corporation for anything, the loan agreements were so well drawn up by both parties. Four of the twelve banks participating in the pool could not withstand such financial losses. And they were immediately absorbed by their partners.

Work on the development of the found diamond deposit on the Onega Peninsula began in the early spring of 1904 and continued throughout the year: a well was drilled to great depths, powerful water monitors were installed that eroded the rock under high pressure, and pumps pumped the resulting water suspension (pulp) to the surface. A processing plant was built where ore was supplied and where diamonds were selected. So far, all of the above has been working in experimental mode: water supply parameters and jet strength were determined, monitor operators acquired skills, and options for pumping out suspended matter and selecting diamonds were tested.

Already at the stage of pilot exploitation of the deposit, good results were obtained, confirming that the deposit found was very rich. The first batch of 300 diamonds was sent in the fall of 1904 to the capital.

A settlement was also established on the site of the diamond pipe. It was called "Forest". 25 Finnish houses were installed here, where geologists, surveyors, technicians, and other employees lived. The remaining 25 houses were intended for the development of the second explored deposit, located 20 kilometers from Lesnoy. Several houses were empty and were intended for guests. One house was allocated for a radio station. The entire village was radio-wired and electrified. Log barracks equipped with stoves were erected for the workers. Two bathhouses were built, a separate building for a dining room with a kitchen, a store was opened, a wooden church was erected and a first-aid post was opened. Powerful pumps and diesel-electric generators were installed in a separate barracks. There were workshops and a warehouse for fuels and lubricants. The number of people living at the mine, including security, was already approaching 200 people. According to calculations, when the mine transitions to industrial operation, it will have a continuous cycle of work, which will require three-shift work with 110 people in each shift, half of whom are women employed at the processing plant. Therefore, the workers were mainly married couples, which made it possible to solve many everyday issues. The salary for all the people working at the mine was high to compensate for the numerous everyday inconveniences and isolation from the “mainland”.

The transition of the mine to industrial operation was expected in the spring of 1905.

On July 30, 1904, a joyful event occurred in the family of Emperor Nicholas II: after the birth of four daughters, a son was born, named Alexei. Unfortunately, the forecast of Professor Alexei Gennadievich Sokolov regarding the prince’s hemophilia disease was justified. It was a very big state secret.

Grand Duchess Elizaveta Feodorovna, the empress's elder sister, immediately after the birth of Tsarevich Alexei met with the empress and spoke about Professor Sokolov's warning about the possible illness of the tsarevich.

- How long ago did you know about this? – asked the empress.

- In 1896.

– And she didn’t tell me anything! I didn't warn you!

- Well, think about it yourself, how could I tell you this? You had daughters. If a boy had been born, then I would have said as I say now. Have you lived at least for so many years in ignorance, without being sick, in advance, in your soul about your son, who, if born, may be sick with a hereditary blood disease!

- What to do?

– Immediately invite the professor here, he is a wonderful person, he is also the archpriest of the Church of the Martyr Tatiana at Moscow University. He will examine the baby and give the necessary recommendations. Alexey Gennadievich has been searching for cures for hemophilia for more than ten years, and has had some success. He is the only person in the world who has a professional understanding of this disease and knows how to alleviate the suffering of patients.

– Call this professor immediately. I'll warn my husband about this.

The professor arrived in the capital immediately after a telephone message from Grand Duchess Elizabeth Feodorovna. Concerned parents were waiting for him in Tsarskoye Selo, where the woman in labor was.

Having examined the baby, Alexey Gennadievich immediately saw the symptoms of this disease: the baby’s navel was still bleeding, and there was no way to stop the bleeding. Then there was a long conversation with the imperial couple, in which he talked about the disease, its consequences, treatment methods, and medications. He advised to assign a “guy” to the prince, who would always be with him, carry him in his arms, watch the games, and, if possible, prevent injuries and bruises, which with such an illness could be deadly. He spoke about his research and work on cures for this disease.

- Alexey Gennadievich! Tell me, will the prince live a full life, or will he just exist, suffering every day and waiting for death? - asked the emperor.

“If you are careful and follow my instructions, he will live a normal life, learn, grow up, and be able to have a family.” I continue to work on finding a cure, and there are already encouraging results. If luck follows me and a cure is found, then everything will be much simpler.

– Do you need any help in this matter?

– Help is needed not so much by me as by the Faculty of Medicine of Moscow University: new laboratories, equipment, chemical materials and reagents are needed. I used my own funds to build the laboratory in which I work and equipped it with the necessary equipment. But time passes, equipment becomes outdated, and laboratory space is limited. If you can help, I will be very grateful.

- I'll see what I can do for you. Would you like to move to the capital and continue your research here?

- I think it's unreasonable. A team of researchers has been created in Moscow, working towards one ultimate goal. It will be very difficult for me without them, and for them without me.

– How often can you come to the capital to examine the prince?

– The main thing is to carefully follow all my instructions. And I can come monthly and, of course, immediately if necessary.

After the professor left, the empress said to her husband:

- What an extraordinary person he is! I feel very comfortable next to him: calm and tranquility spread around him! He can reassure with a word, which is very important for a doctor. What a blessing that there is a specialist in this disease in Russia! I believe that everything will be fine with Alexey!

- God forbid! - Emperor Nicholas II answered and crossed himself.

The corporation's research divisions, formed in 1903, by the end of the next year had become stronger, replenished with specialists and scientific equipment, and were already actively working on the tasks assigned to them.

The Automotive Research Institute (NIIA) of the corporation is located not far from SMZ, on lands along the Slavyanka River, purchased by the corporation several years ago. A large three-story brick building was built there, which housed design bureaus: for engines, for bodies and chassis, for gearboxes and electrical equipment of cars. Technologists were also located there. Adjacent to the three-story building were experimental workshops for creating and testing developed samples, warehouses and a special building, into which only chief specialists had the right to enter with passes signed by the manager, whose role was played by Pyotr Ivanovich himself. This building was carefully guarded by the corporation’s security guards and consisted of several large rooms, each of which contained a car “thrown over” from the future: a UAZ, a Volvo, a Ford Focus, a truck crane and a wheeled excavator. Around them, along the walls, there were metal racks on which assemblies and blocks removed from these cars for study were stored.

The UAZ was already completely disassembled. The detailing of its components was completed. Technologists developed technological maps and transferred them, along with drawings, to pilot production for manufacturing.

According to Pyotr Ivanovich’s plans, in 1905 the UAZ should be reproduced in full. Of course, it’s not a fact that it will start driving right away, but it will be a huge step in the automotive industry of that time.

First of all, we were engaged in reproducing the engine and chassis of the car. A prototype engine has already been manufactured and undergoing testing.

The Research Institute of Aircraft Engineering (NIIS) of the corporation was located in Moscow, not far from Moscow University. The head of NIIS was Nikolai Egorovich Zhukovsky, a famous Russian mathematician, the founder of aviation in Russia. Simultaneously with his work at NIIS, he continued his scientific and teaching activities at the university.

In 1904, Zhukovsky discovered the law that determines the lifting force of an aircraft wing. Determined the main profiles of the wings and propeller blades of the aircraft. Developed the vortex theory of the propeller.

On November 15, 1905, Zhukovsky read a report “On attached vortices,” which laid the theoretical basis for the development of methods for determining the lift force of an airplane wing. In 1906 it was published as a separate scientific work.

Nikolai Egorovich attracted his colleagues and students to work at NIIS. The corporation provided him with unlimited funding for scientific work in the field of aviation. A design and technology bureau and pilot production were also established at NIIS.

Strong business ties were established with NIIA, since many of the works of these organizations were suppressed and in order to eliminate parallelism in work, for example in engine building, there was a constant exchange of scientific and design information.

Ignat was appointed as a representative from the corporation at NIIS, who settled in Moscow with his young wife, purchased his own house not far from his parents’, and headed one of the divisions of NIIS.

Zhukovsky was glad to involve Ignat in scientific work. He really lacked experienced calculation specialists. As the topics of scientific work expanded, the number of calculations increased by an order of magnitude. Ignat, using a poorly functioning but “live” laptop, helped him with this as best he could. He understood that the laptop would soon “die for a long time,” so he organized a group of mathematicians from graduates of the Faculty of Mathematics of Moscow University, developing applied mathematical methods, and recruited them for calculations.

He had been pestering Sasha for a long time with a request to restore a laptop with a broken display screen, or, as a last resort, try to use the screen from Ignat’s laptop, combining it with the working hardware of Sasha’s laptop. Lately, the only working laptop has been freezing and crashing more and more often. Unfortunately, it was very difficult to assemble one working device from two faulty devices, since they had different manufacturers, and therefore different components and parts. But if something irreparable happens and Ignat’s laptop completely fails, then Sasha promised to work on restoring one working laptop out of two faulty ones.

The last direction that the corporation declared was geological exploration of mineral resources. Pyotr Ivanovich attracted his acquaintances from the Mining Institute to work at the Research Institute of Geology (NIIG), asking the famous geologist Alexander Petrovich Karpinsky to head it. Since 1905, the corporation has annually financed three geological exploration expeditions, both in Russia and in other countries.

Thus, the Russian Capital corporation has taken a leading position in Russia and the world in a number of the most promising areas of science and technology.

The corporation's capital by mid-1905 amounted to about four billion gold rubles.

A lot has been done, but not all of the goals have been achieved.

Although Russia won the war against Japan, the revolutionary movement did not die out, and workers and peasants continued to protest with economic and political demands. Fundamental decisions were needed, one of which was the introduction of parliamentarism in Russia.

After the end of the war, nothing prevented this; only the political will of the authorities was needed.

Emperor Nicholas II was presented with documents explaining the need for political changes in the country. Pyotr Aristarkhovich and Alexander worked a lot on them. They argued that the best way out of the political impasse leading to a revolutionary explosion in Russia is to transfer part of the power to public organizations, as has been done in other countries of the world where parties are allowed and real political struggle takes place. “It is better to give up some of your rights and powers than to lose everything as a result of a revolution,” - this is the main conclusion that readers of this document could draw.

The creation of a State Duma, in which people's representatives and representatives of all-Russian political parties should sit - this is the path of Russia.

There were many opponents to these ideas around the emperor. But the decisive word, outweighing all other opinions, was expressed by Patriarch Vladimir, who uncompromisingly supported the idea of ​​developing parliamentarism. “This is the only thing that can avert the death of the monarchy, the fratricidal civil war, and the loss of the homeland by many Russian citizens.” And his word was heard.

At the end of 1905, Decrees were issued allowing the formation of parties in Russia that did not have in their Charter a declaration on the seizure of power by armed means, the formation of the State Duma, its structure, rights and obligations, and the mechanism of interaction with state power. A gateway for the release of people's discontent was formed.

In 1905, Alexander and Lena turned 58 years old, Alexey - 53, Nastya - 50, Pyotr Ivanovich - 35, Nadezhda - we won’t even remind anyone how old.

The period of formation of the newcomers in the new world was ending. Serious matters lay ahead for their family: penetrating the global financial elite and winning a worthy place in it, counteracting the impending world war, preventing revolution in Russia, further developing science, technology and technology. They had to go through incredible difficulties, losing family, loved ones, and friends along the way, and experience betrayal, the bitterness of defeat and the joy of victory.

Chapter 1. Three years later. 2

Chapter 2. Deeds and conversations. 8

Chapter 3. Beginning. 15

Chapter 4. Activity on all fronts. 23

Chapter 5. Traveling with adventures. 31

Chapter 6. Big gathering. 40

Chapter 7. Fights on the “radio fronts”. 48

Chapter 8. The formation of cinema. 54

Chapter 9. World Exhibition and Olympic Games in Paris. 62

Chapter 10. Political affairs. 68

Chapter 11. Not a simple situation. 75

Chapter 12. America, America... 84

Chapter 13. And pain, and tears, and love. 95

Chapter 14. Big changes. 103

Chapter 15. New things. 109

Chapter 16. Between a rock and a hard place. 118

Chapter 17. Secret wedding. 125

Chapter 18. Conspiracy. 133

Chapter 19. Local battles. 141

Chapter 20. Everyone gets what they deserve. 148

Many of us ask ourselves questions that we cannot answer. For example, why do some have the best, while others have a topsy-turvy life? Why do some people have a strong family and children that they can be proud of, while others are either lonely all their lives or suffer from their husbands? Or why some people have super good health, while others, if they don’t get sick all the time, end up in situations that you just can’t get into. Why do some people have wonderful jobs, businesses with huge amounts of money, while others survive as best they can in poverty?
You will find the answer to these questions in today's article.

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Stop for a minute, don’t ask unnecessary questions to anyone, but ask yourself why YOU are faced with these particular circumstances and living conditions. Look at all this from the outside and try to analyze how it happened that your life is developing in a certain way at the moment. Think about why this state of affairs causes dissatisfaction?

The answer here is quite simple: we live the way we deserve. Therefore, don't complain. You got what you deserve.

And you should not express complaints to others, because each person controls his own destiny. You have the family, the job and the prosperity you deserve. Did a powerful wave of protest arise within you at this phrase? This means that you are in “your truth,” like each of the people to a greater or lesser extent. And if you don’t do anything about it, you can’t overcome yourself and try to evaluate your life from the outside, objectively, then there is no need to talk about any changes in life.

"Your truth."

All people, to a greater or lesser extent, are in “their truth,” regardless of their level of development. What it is? These are personal views, opinions, values ​​that have become ossified to such an extent that they have already formed a blank wall in front of a person, preventing them from seeing the true state of affairs or something new in life. These are patterns of thoughts and actions that a person blindly adheres to, regardless of the situation, and often does not want to recognize the possibility of going beyond these boundaries.

We receive everything according to personal merit.

What are these abstract words, you ask, and what is the best way to measure dignity?

Human dignity is, let’s say, gradual holistic development, which includes the development of both internal maturity and purity, as well as wisdom. We do not determine the measure of our own dignity; this is done for us. Therefore, get angry: I deserve it, why didn’t they give it to me? Or trying to get what you want, thinking that you deserve it, is a wasted effort. This is the same as taking out an expensive car on credit and then crashing it after a while. The car is gone, but the debt remains.

Here the question arises: why did this happen? Because I didn't deserve to have a car. According to some parameters in life, a person only achieved a C grade, but he needs at least a B plus in order to still be given a car. Or, imagine a vessel that you offered to the Universe (or God, if you believe in him), to be filled with this or that goodness. And this vessel has two walls, but one is missing. Or two are high, and one barely rose five centimeters from the bottom. Then they will “pour” these five centimeters... What to do? Develop those internal qualities that you lack to get what you want. How do you find out what these qualities are? Here it is better to address your problem to a Master, Mentor, or psychologist.

We are born in this world to develop and change. If this does not happen, then the Universe pulls a person into the “backyard” of life and leaves him to simply live out his life. To understand the level of your development, just look around. The society in which we find ourselves and the situations that indicate to us the state of things in our lives directly or indirectly - all these beacons constantly tell us about our shortcomings, mistakes, mistakes, and so on.

Everything in this world is in balance.

This concept seems too ephemeral and vague, but it can be compared to the scales. One of them is inside you and the other is outside. What and how much you fit inside will influence some changes with a certain force in the outside world - these are the laws of systemology.

For example, the girl’s father constantly told her that it was dangerous to communicate with boys, trying to protect her with the best intentions. As a result, as an adult, a girl is afraid to start relationships with men, without knowing why, she feels insecure in relationships with them, and quickly falls into the role of a victim. She will most likely get a man who will use her. In any case, because of the attitudes that she was given as a child, now in life she will have to experience some difficulties in relationships with men.

Or, a person lives according to the following principles: few people can be trusted, anyone can set him up and is looking for his own benefit, the world is cruel, you need to survive. This means that in life he will come across precisely those people who are prone to hypocrisy, lies, cruelty, greed, and so on. Because of “his own truth,” he simply will not see that there is another life where one can negotiate, where there is support and friendliness.

It can be explained this way:

Do you know the theory about the holographic nature of the world? Most scientists take its essence as a rule. To explain the meaning of this theory, you can use the words of Hermes Trismegistus: “What is above is the same below.”

Regardless of any beliefs, you will have to come to terms with the fact that in order to change the world around you, you need to start with yourself. There is no point in changing your profession, being angry with your family, being indignant due to the lack of a normal salary, and so on.

Try to accept the circumstances in which you find yourself. They indicate the level of your development. Current living conditions can be called the starting point in a long journey of development of which you are at the beginning. Based on them, you need to understand in which direction to move next in order to achieve your goals, what to work with, what to pay special attention to.

A worthy person is always grateful for what he has. By learning to accept and appreciate your life as it is now, you become ready to receive more. And nothing else.

By making efforts on yourself in various areas of life, you will always receive a response from the world. Each step will be rewarded with a result that is proportional to the effort and effort expended. This is the measure of Dignity. At times it may seem like you're getting too little for your hard work, but that's not true. Remember that it is not the person who determines the measure. If the result does not meet expectations, it means that your efforts were not enough.

On the path to a better life, you will learn to be aware of your desires and needs, find the right solutions to problems, as well as the right ways to achieve your goals. Over time, you will understand what you really deserve and what else you need to do to get it. An objective analysis of one’s own actions is the key to understanding the laws of the Universe. From now on, you will feel the relationship between the efforts made and the benefits that the Universe measures out for you.



 
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